{"id":3185,"date":"2009-11-22T09:43:07","date_gmt":"2009-11-22T14:43:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/37d57f8fa2.nxcli.io\/blog\/?p=3185"},"modified":"2009-11-20T17:15:21","modified_gmt":"2009-11-20T22:15:21","slug":"hard-selling-vs-networking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marketingforsuccess.com\/blog\/sales\/hard-selling-vs-networking\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Ways Networking Beats The Pants Off Hard Selling"},"content":{"rendered":"

For many people the word \u201cnetworking\u201d has a negative connotation. This is in part due to the fact that many salesmen abuse networking to push their products or services. So let\u2019s take a deeper look into the difference between (hard) selling and networking to solve some of the misunderstandings about networking.<\/p>\n

The main difference between selling and networking is that in a sales process the goal of the interaction between two people is the sale of a product or service<\/strong>. When networking, this sale could be the consequence<\/strong> of a contact that is built with respect and care. So it is clear that the sale is not the goal of networking, but a nice and in many cases a logical consequence.<\/p>\n

The comparison in the table (below) goes into the details of the difference between selling and networking. The table shows several elements of \u201cnegative networking\u201d by hard sellers on the one hand and \u201creal networking\u201d on the other hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
<\/strong><\/td>\nHard sellers who network…<\/strong><\/td>\nReal networkers… <\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
1<\/td>\nAre focused on the short term<\/strong><\/td>\nAre focused on the long term<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
2<\/td>\nTry to detect a need<\/strong> that can be satisfied by their product or service<\/td>\nShare any information<\/strong> that can be interesting for the other party<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
3<\/td>\nOnly give when they have an immediate profit<\/strong><\/td>\nGive without expecting something back<\/strong> (and in the long run this usually pays off better too)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
4<\/td>\nListen in order to get the deal<\/strong><\/td>\nListen to help<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
5<\/td>\nAsk questions in order to be able to position<\/strong> their product or service better<\/td>\nAsk questions to be able to be better of assistance<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
6<\/td>\nFind people interesting only if they are a potential customer<\/strong><\/td>\nFind everybody<\/strong> interesting as a contact. You can never be certain of who they know and what they know.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
7<\/td>\nWant to collect and distribute as many business cards as possible<\/strong><\/td>\nAsk and give business cards to people with whom they really established contact. <\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
8<\/td>\nTalk often only about their product or service without listening to others<\/strong><\/td>\nSee to it that others always talk<\/strong> more than they do, listen carefully<\/strong> to them and encourage them to tell more.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
9<\/td>\nTry to bring the attention to their product or service<\/strong>.<\/td>\nRecommend products or services of people in their network <\/strong>(and only if they are relevant for the people they talk to)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
10<\/td>\nThe goal is the sale. <\/strong>People are a means, a resource (sometimes even a necessary evil) to reach that goal.<\/td>\nThe goal is to establish and maintain contacts. <\/strong>One of the possible consequences is a sale<\/strong>.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

To make it even more clear, I have a small example for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Situation:<\/strong> A salesman of fire extinguishers meets the manager of a local affiliate of a bank at a reception of the Chamber of Commerce.<\/p>\n

Hard Selling<\/strong><\/p>\n

The salesman does his sales magic to convince the manager to buy fire extinguishers for his office. He is a good salesman and he manages to sell 5 fire extinguishers.<\/p>\n

The evening of the salesman is a success.<\/p>\n

Networking<\/strong><\/p>\n

The salesman is interested in the manager as a person. Amongst other things he learns that the manager is a passionate sailor and that he is looking for a new boat. The salesman remembers that a friend of his has a boat for sale.<\/p>\n

He not only passes this on to the manager, but also provides them with each other\u2019s contact details the following day. A week later the boat has a new owner.<\/p>\n

Four months later the salesman receives a phone call from the manager. The manager asks him to deliver new fire extinguishers for the office and for the facilities of the sailing club where the manager recently became chairman. Moreover the manager proposes to write a letter to all the members of the sailing club with a recommendation for the fire extinguishers of the salesman.<\/p>\n

The year of the salesman is a success.<\/p>\n

What about you? Are you more of a hard seller than a networker?<\/strong> You don\u2019t have to be a salesperson to be a seller. Everybody has to sell continuously.<\/p>\n

You have to \u201csell\u201d the next project to your management team, you have to \u201csell\u201d to your partner to go to the movies instead of spending an evening at home, you have to \u201csell\u201d to your children that they keep their room clean, \u2026 Everybody is a seller in one way or the other.<\/p>\n

– Jan<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
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